What is Sex Positivity?


The foundation of sex positivity is simply the idea that all healthy and explicitly consensual sex is a positive element in life.


Sex positivity means maintaining a healthy attitude towards sex and valuing it, given your individual needs. Sex positivity also embraces the idea of being sexually educated and staying safe. Individuals who are sex positive actively decide how and what they want from their sex lives, rather than let others dictate it.

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Play & Pleasure

Play & Pleasure is a multi session skills and relationship building workshop for men who have sex with men. Inspired by the philosophy of sex positivity, our Peer Support Team have developed the program to help men build the confidence, knowledge and skills necessary to have the sex they want. Play & Pleasure creates a fun, social and informal environment for facilitators to share ideas about sex positivity and how to achieve a more healthy relationship, while providing up to date information and fulfilling skills to take home and improve your own sex life! Each session is hosted in the large function room, allowing space for participants to enjoy dinner during the session and network with other attendees. Read more about each session below - you can choose to attend the sessions that particularly interest you, or come along to every session. Whether you're attending solo, bringing a partner or as part of a group, we hope you'll join us to talk about the sex you want!

What is Sex positivity? 

Sex positivity is the simple  idea that healthy, explicitly consensual sex is a positive thing. Being sex positive means maintaining a healthy attitude towards sex and not only valuing the role sex plays in your life, but also your personal sexual needs.  Sex positivity also embraces the idea of being sexually educated and staying safe. Individuals who are sex positive actively decide how and what they want from their sex lives, rather than let others dictate it.

 

Session 1: Building Positive Attitudes

Session 1: Building Positive Attitudes

"Confidence comes with maturity, being more accepting of yourself..."

This workshop will focus on building positive attitudes and self confidence, fostering positive self image, keeping perspective, being proactive and optimistic, letting go of past negative experiences and resentment.

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Session 2: Communication for Sex

Session 2: Communication for Sex

"Communication leads to understanding, to intimacy and shared values."

This workshop will focus on communicating what you want and don’t want, negotiating consent, rejecting and rejection and listening more effectively.

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Session 3: Safe Sex Skills

Session 3: Safe Sex Skills

"Sex is an emotion in motion"

This workshop will focus on educating skills and safe sex. Lets talk PrEP, PEP and UVL, review and discuss the range of safe sex strategies for HIV and STIs, how to communicate and negotiate these strategies. Also sex skills - where to get decent information and explore new things.

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Session 4: Negotiating Relationships

Session 4: Negotiating Relationships

"Emotions aren't the obstacles to a successful negotiation; they are the means."

This workshop will focus on negotiating relationships. Discuss different relationship styles: friends with benefits, lovers, and partnerships open and monogamous, and group play. Negotiating sexual needs in relationship, changes over time, keeping things interesting, dealing with breakups.

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Session 5: Online Pleasure & Safety

Session 5: Online Pleasure & Safety

2:45am "...u up?"

We focus on online dating and Hook-up Apps – how to negotiate the challenges and opportunities of online hook-up aps, including discussing HIV status on apps. Discussion will promote having a healthy relationship with Apps, how to make meaningful connections and use apps for your needs.

 

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Session 6: A Healthy Approach to Porn & Toys

Session 6: A Healthy Approach to Porn & Toys

We have a distorted view of our fantasies ... because we don't talk about them enough."

How can you make porn a positive element in your healthy sex life? How do sex toys factor into your relationships? We talk about finding porn that supports sex life. Using Toys safely. Changing unhelpful habits. Possibly visit to The Ranch.

 

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Session 7: Creativity and Sex

Session 7: Creativity and Sex

"Don't let the fear of not knowing how to do something stop you from trying. Curiosity drives us."

Our final session will focus on creativity and sex, how to keep safe when exploring new things, fetish and kink, openness and safety, fantasy and role play. Where to get help in exploring new things.

 

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CONNECT WITH THE COUNCIL

The Council runs a variety of workshops for our volunteers, members and the whole community. Keep an eye out for upcoming workshops. You can keep up to date with Community Workshops we are making available by following us on FacebookTwitterInstagram or by subscribing to our newsletter. Call 6257 2855 or This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. for any additional enquiries.

2017 has been a big year!

As the year draws to a close, I want to thank all our funders, supporters, peers, members, colleagues, friends and most importantly clients, who have worked with and alongside us in 2017.

The central focus of our work, this year, remained on HIV transmission and supporting people impacted by HIV.  This year we have seen some of the most critical developments in the HIV epidemic since records began.  This year, we have seen historically high rates of testing, earlier treatment than ever before, and the emergence of the enormous prevention benefits from two key biomedical approaches to HIV prevention, pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) and early treatment.

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30 Ways to World AIDS Day

30 ways to world aids day

World AIDS Day is held on 1 December each year. It raises awareness across the world and in the community about HIV and AIDS. It is a day for the community to show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate people who have died of AIDS related conditions or other conditions associated with HIV.

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AIDS Action Council acknowledges the sad passing of Levinia Crooks

28 November 1960 – 16 October 2017

 It is with great sadness that the Board, Staff and Volunteers of the AIDS Action Council of the ACT acknowledge the sad passing of Adjunct Associate Professor Levinia Crooks, AM on 16 October 2017 after a long and courageously fought illness.  Levinia was 56 and is survived by her mother, Judy.

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Rainbow Pet Parade: CBR Fair Day 2017

The Rainbow Pet Parade will return to Fair Day in 2017!

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Hosted at Gorman Arts Centre, the finest and fluffiest (or not!) of Canberra's pups will come together to strut their stuff.
Does your puppy have the waggiest tail? Or have the most fashionable outfit?
Register your fur baby by downloading the attachment below and returning it by email to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. before 26 October. You can also return a hard copy of this form to the Northside stall at CBR Fair Day on the day!
Registration cost: gold coin donation. All proceeds will return directly to Northside Community Service to fund the PAWS Program. Help keep Canberra's vulnerable pets healthy and happy!
 

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